He pulled me into his arms after we stood up, “Damn baby this relationship is so wonderful in my eyes. its really making me happy.” I kiss him and then run into my bedroom to throw on yoga sweats and a tshirt coming back. “Sorry I was cold honey can you turn on the fireplace and explain to me what I’m doing that makes you so happy.”
“After I put on some clothes too, the house cooled off when we were otherwise occupied.” He smiled and I laughed starting my chicken meat pie with my cheat start before he came back. A can of chicken with wild rice soup opened and put into the pan on the burner and then I quickly throw that can in the recycling bin while I turn on the burner on low. I then get some carrots out, peel them and start cutting them up putting them into a small pan of boiling water. After doing that Jon comes back and I dump a few handfuls of frozen peas into the soup mixture. “I hope you like veggies?”
He wrapped his arms around my waist. “Baby I am a smart man, I was married for 100 years. I love that my woman is making me dinner so I’m not going to to sit here and tell her I don’t like it. I’m smart I’m going to eat home cooked food and enjoy the hell out of getting spoiled.”
“Ok I get the fact that you’re trying to still be on your best behavior because our dating is new and all. But if you allow me to make you things that you hate and then in 6 months get all real and be like I hate that - I’m going to get so pissed and stop cooking for you. More pissed than if you just say - honey I don’t like carrots much, now, so I don’t keeping making things with them.”
He kissed my neck and brought his hands up to my breasts and laughed. “NO honey the only thing I’m not really a fan of is rudabeggas and rhubarb. Most normal vegetables I love.”
“Ok what about meats? Do you not like certain ones?” I ask him once the carrots are boiling I stab one and feed it to him. “How tough are they?”
“I like all red meat not big on venison however I’ll eat it. I like a good fish dish when I can get it and the carrots still have a crunch but not much.”
I smile and dump the carrots with their water into the soup mixture. “Well I’ll never make you anything with fish of any kind of mushrooms of any kind I’m allergic so they don’t come in my house.”
“Why did you dump that water in there too?”
“Because I needed the extra liquid, will you get the fire please?”
“Oh yeah sorry hon.” He went over there as I started to get out the roasting pan, the drop biscuit mix and the corn starch.
“Would you like some wine babe?”
I smile and nod. “So you going to explain that to me?”
“What? Oh why I’m happy with us?” He asked as he poured me a glass of white wine.
“Yes that.” I smile thickening the soup. He looks at what I’m doing but not having a clue of what I’m making he stays quiet on the process and answers my question.
“I love that only our 2nd time having sex I can be that intense with you. I don’t have to put on airs and pretend that I don’t want just a good pounding. There’s something to be said about getting it in, getting off and relaxing in her arms after words.”
“Jon that makes it sound like you just wanted the act not the connection to me.”
“Honestly babe, round two was all about the orgasm, round one was all about being with you. Its totally ok in a loving relationship, to have both kinds of sex, one for the relationship and one for the hormones. It seems to work best in my experience to not deny that sometimes all you really want is to get off. It doesn’t always have to be about roses and stars and the 3 words that people say to each other all too easily and don’t mean. Sometimes it is all about that, there’s nights when we’ll make love or fuck or have sex whatever, and it’ll take an hour because we’ll have to kiss every inch of each others bodies and we’ll do all that before I get inside you. It takes all kinds babe, in order to keep a relationship solid long, long, term, every night can’t be sex for the sake of love because both of us will have these built up hormones that can’t be released that way. So if there’s a time when you just need me to take you hard babe I will, I promise I like finding new ways to please my lover.”
Later that night after Jon loved dinner, he and I spent the night in front of the TV, laptops on our laps and a notebook between us trying to find him a place to live. He originally wanted to just hire a realtor and I told him that the second they see the name on the request for one they won’t show him anything below $20mil.
“So, I have it why not spend it?”
“Well if you’d like to give your money away, give it to the human societies and the no kill animal shelters that need every penny they can get. You don’t even know yet if you want to rent or buy do you? Do you want a condo or a house? How many bedrooms?”
He leaned over to me and kissed me pulling on my bottom lip. “You’re a sassy girlfriend what if I just bring you to bed and make you forget all this.”
“You know Romeo this is part of the fun of finding a house. I had a ball finding this place, figuring out what I wanted, no one else. Are any of your places decorated in your style?”
He stopped and thought about that then kind of hung his head. “No they aren’t. They are all her style because I figured she would be home more than I would anyway so what was the point of fighting over things.”
“Do you know what your style would be, what you want it to be? See this one then can be all you - whatever you want you get and you don’t have to answer to anyone.” I try to encourage him to be selfish in this time, since he’s paid millions and millions of dollars for houses he never really got to put his stamp on. “Do you still have all your places?”
“You say that like there’s a lot of them.”
“Martha’s vineyard, Red Bank, SoHo, and I think there’s gotta be one in St. Barts and I heard you own your parents house.”
“Yes on all counts but I’m selling the SoHo house, its actually in the realtors hands now so I shouldn’t have it in about a month.”
“Ok so last I heard you had that on the market for $35M, why would you get that money minus taxes and then turn around and spend $20M on a house you’ll see what a month a year tops.”
“No honey I live here now remember, this is where I’m calling home until the band kicks up again. But I see your point lets research.”
I’m a kid in a candy store, I actually go into full research mode. I’d find a house that I think was cute and reasonably priced and easy commute for me on public transportation and he’d look at it, or he’d find one he liked, and have me look at it for transportation. We did get into a little disagreement over how far I could walk in the city from the bus or train stop. His final answer was 4 blocks max. He told me normally he’d require I take a cab or something and he’d pay because he just did not like the idea of me walking alone in Chicago especially at night.
Jon finally finds about 20 places he wants to see, and after a few days of him going to see houses and condo’s he decides on a house not a condo. He’d rather have a place that’s completely his and he didn’t want people telling him there were certain rules to this building. He didn’t need all the hoopla of being in the best condo with the best view and all that. He told me that if he wanted the view he’d just look at me. I smiled and went and looked at houses with him over the next few weeks. I had called my realtor again and she was very confused as to why I would need her help again and I told her I had a friend that was looking to buy a house could she help him. She of course agreed to meet us and had her ideas on a few places because I told her he needed a 5 bedroom at least. We also had been looking and found places we’d like to see.
Jon and Amy went looking while I worked, after work he picked me up and brought me to the place he wanted the most. He had Amy meet us there and of course that was the house he ended up buying. He got a great deal on it we thought, Amy was able to keep his name off the paperwork until the very last moment well after the final negotiations were done and without the homeowners knowing who was looking at it they were more than willing to negotiate since the house had been on the market for well over a year. Asking price for this 5 bedroom, 5 ½ bath home was $3.2M and he got it for $1.9M. The final straw was Jon telling the realtor to play hard ball either they met his price or he walked and since it had been on the market forever did they really want to keep sitting on it. That was the clincher that he was willing to find something else, they agreed. The house is in the Near North/Lincoln Park district of Chicago. On a quiet one way residential street. He even told me he might let me walk from the bus stop in the non cold months.
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